Wisdom In All Things Special Series
You might say that it was Benjamin Franklin’s disillusionment with a sermon on Philippians 4:8 that was at least partly responsible for his conceiving of “the bold and arduous project of arriving at moral perfection” that is his 13 virtues.
A wise life is a virtuous life. There is an expectation of behavior from someone who claims to be wise. This 13-part series will seek to help us understand a life that is exemplified by the characteristics elevated by this great American statesman.
EXPOSE | Tranquility
“Be not disturbed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable.” – Benjamin Franklin
EXPLORE | Tranquility or Perpetual Perturbation
Keep Calm and Carry On.
Those words made up a poster created by the British government in 1939. They were meant to inspire courage in English citizens preparing for the onslaught of World War II.
Surprisingly, they were not used extensively. It wasn’t until 2000 that they were rediscovered in a bookstore in Northern England. Since that time, they have taken on a life of their own and hardly reflect the history and conviction for which they were conceived.
While World War II was no trifling matter, the admonishment given to those facing that overwhelming situation is really good advice for any circumstance, especially those of little or no consequence.
Keep Calm and Carry on.
We shouldn’t get too shook by a trifle. Something that is “of little value or importance” should not be worried about, or be allowed to interfere or distract.
A friend and I had spent a week working at a camp in Bemidji, MN. If you’ve ever been to Minnesota in the summer, you are probably well acquainted with our state bird: the mosquito.
One early evening, we wanted to have some fun after a day’s work and decided to go golfing. I only lasted two holes. The air was so thick with gnats and mosquitoes, I simply could not bear the psychological warfare.
Sure, they’re pretty harmless, unless you let them get to you. First, they break you mentally. And not too long after that, they have you convulsing and flailing your arms in the air like one of those inflatable tube people.
However, my friend was able to ignore them. Crawling in his nose, ears, and eyes, he had the remarkable ability to just play on. Evidently, he was blessed with the superpower of being imperturbable.
Franklin’s admonition is to “keep calm and carry on”. We can’t allow trifles and those events and circumstances that are common and unavoidable to trip us up or pull us away from what is actually important. The inability to find tranquility can develop into a perpetual state of being perturbed.
EXECUTE | Being Undisturbed by Trifles
There are a number of questions or areas to investigate as we deal with the ways the trifling matters of life get to us. From understanding what you’re feeling and considering others’ perspectives, to overthinking things and beating yourself up. However, I want to focus on two areas specifically.
The first is to try and quickly dispel our lunacy. I know that for me, things become much larger than they actually are, and far more dangerous in my mind when I detach from reality. The little things get to me and reality is distorted.
The second is a caution about dealing with anger. Whether you have a quick fuse or your anger is always on simmer, handling the “little things” can spare you and others unnecessary harm.
Less like Kirk. More like Spock.
Reality is pretty important. Spock is always good about pointing to those instances of reality we mere humans like to skip past.
“Insufficient facts always invite danger.” – Spock
Captain Kirk, on the other hand, is, well, the opposite. Reality doesn’t seem to stop him from going where his heart leads him. It’s pretty easy to see who would be the “arm flailer” and who would just simply move to an area that had no gnats.
Here’s how we can apply more reality to trifles, and keep from overreacting emotionally and letting them drive us nuts.
- Identify what is true in the situation. What is true of you, God, and elements of the (trifling) situation?
- Is this one of life’s trifles? Can I change it or avoid it
- What will happen if I explode? That is, what will be the outcome if I don’t deal with reality, and begin flailing my arms?
You can only manage what is in your control. Set aside the rest.
“When you eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth.” – Spock
Let logic “take the wheel”. When you skip past some logical considerations, you become a little too much like Caption Kirk, and not enough like Spock.
Less like Hulk. More like Banner.
Seeing the Hulk puts the need for anger management into perspective. Though we don’t turn green, and burst out of our clothing, when we erupt it can be deadly if not at least extremely painful. People run in fear for their lives and property damage is exponential.
Steve Rogers: Doctor Banner, now might be a good time for you to get angry.
Bruce Banner: That’s my secret, Cap: I’m always angry.
From The Avengers
If you’ve reached that point, or can quickly get there, hopefully, you can learn to “walk it back” to where you “left logic behind.” Additionally, here are a few steps to take to manage the “inner monster” with help from The Comic Vault:
- Recognize your monster. And what triggers it. Why are you angry? What “takes you there”? Can it be diffused, or can you distance yourself from it?
- Talk to the monster, and make it your ally. The monster can be put to good use when it is controlled and directed.
- Identify the “something positive” you can channel that anger toward. When feeling like you need an outlet, determine how you can direct that emotion in a way that something good will result from expressing it.
We cannot avoid the unavoidable. But we can avoid what is. Remember: more like Spock and Banner, less like Kirk and The Hulk.
Being calm, cool, and collected means you will avoid the tendency to be perpetually perturbed.
Keep Calm and Carry On.
Benjamin Franklin’s 13 Virtues – ebook & audio set
Drawing inspiration from Paul’s letter (Phil. 4:8) and Benjamin Franklin’s quest for virtuous living, this e-book and audio set aims to explore and put into practice these virtues as we exercise Wisdom In All Things.
Benjamin Franklin’s Grand Plan
Franklin’s “meticulous execution” of his 13 virtues was embodied in a chart he developed in order to observe and quantify his growth toward perfection.
There are a number of examples of his chart available, but here is one for reference from Homeschool Patriot:
Whether you use this chart, or devise something yourself, it is certainly in your best interest to have some tool in place to not only keep you focused, but to establish the habit of intentional growth in those characteristics that make up the virtuous life.
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Further reading:
Franklin autobiography
The virtuous life – tranquility
The Comic Vault: anger management with the Hulk
Wikipedia: Keep Calm and Carry On
